| Our basic assumptions about power have
a profound impact on our behavior and conse-quently our personal
and professional success. The chart below outlines the consequences
of viewing power as scarce-the Finite Perspective, or abundant-the
Infinite Perspective. Too often we automatically chose the finite
perspective with its inherent power-limiting conse-quences. With
the awareness offered, you can begin to more consciously chose
the Infinite Perspective with its expansive potential if and only
if it is appropriate to the situation at hand. |
The
Finite Perspective |
The
Infinite Perspective |
| Fundamental supposition: Power
is scarce. |
Fundamental supposition: Power
is abundant. |
| A zero-sum, win/lose game. |
A positive-sum, win/win game. |
The purpose of playing a finite
game is to
establish a winner. |
The purpose of playing an infinite
game is to continue and maintain play of the game. |
| Playing finitely easily evokes defence of self-esteem
and identity. Deception and secrecy become strategies of choice. |
Playing infinitely evokes cooperation and openness
while not allowing one's self to lose. |
This is a game to be played
very seriously
whenever the survival of our self-esteem or sense of identity is
at stake. |
This is a game to be played
well-even play-fully-because our self-esteem or sense of identity
is not at stake. |
| Differences are used to define who is winner and
who is loser. Differences are, therefore, threatening. Conformity
is safe. |
Differences are valued and safe. As the only
source of learning, differences stimulate curiosity, creativity,
and synergy. |
| As players, we freely choose
to play finitely although we often lose sight of there being
an alternative. |
As players, we freely choose
to play infinitely whenever we remember it as a possibility. |
| "Power is scarce" is a self-fulfilling
win/lose prophecy because partnerships are temporary and finite
in number. |
"Power is abundant" is a self-fulfilling,
win/win prophecy because potential partnerships are secure and
infinite in number. |
The finite perspective is the
paradigm of
of choice when survival is a moment-to-moment issue. |
The infinite perspective is
the paradigm of choice when growth and learning are primary goals. |
The win/lose of the finite perspective always becomes
lose/lose if one's sense of self-esteem or identity is at stake
and actual physical survival is not.
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